ingratiation
n. 逢迎,讨好
1. the act of gaining acceptance or affection for yourself by persuasive and subtle blandishments;
Not being able to stand his ingratiation, I helplessly agreed to his request.
我经不住他的死缠硬泡, 无奈地答应了他的请求.
Ingratiation is that you show you unction which would make other people feel uncomfortable and feeling.
逢迎是虚情假意,那会造成别人的戒心和不舒服.