ingratiation
n. 逢迎,討好
1. the act of gaining acceptance or affection for yourself by persuasive and subtle blandishments;
Not being able to stand his ingratiation, I helplessly agreed to his request.
我經不住他的死纏硬泡, 無奈地答應了他的請求.
Ingratiation is that you show you unction which would make other people feel uncomfortable and feeling.
逢迎是虛情假意,那會造成別人的戒心和不舒服.